Have you ever met anyone who claimed they’re a people person, and actually was a people person?
I haven’t had the pleasure either!
I always wondered what is it about people who claim they are something, or love something – yet clearly aren’t or don’t.
A really big example is those who claim “They fucking love science”. I remember a few years ago that used to be one of the most popular facebook pages or groups. But anyone with half a brain knows these morons are the last ones on the planet who actually have an active interest in science*. These monkeys read a research study headline and spout it off like fact.
A Science Lover In The Flesh
I think it’s overcompensating. A wise man** once said that virtue doesn’t know that it’s virtue. What that means is that if you’re honest, then you don’t really overly associate yourself with being honest. You just are and don’t fixate on.
Essentially when someone says this they’re seeking validation of others. They don’t feel comfortable with whatever they’re trying to subtly brag about. And aim to convince the other person otherwise.
- Those who claim they’re a people person are those who lack quality friendships in life.
- Those who claim they love science feel insecure about their intelligence or what they’ve achieved in life.
- Those who are constantly fixated about how honest and loyal they are, tend to lack honesty and loyalty to some degree – but are blind in seeing it.
It never works. The sixth sense (i.e our bullshit detector) within us picks it up.
If the other person fails to pick it up and you actually convince them, then that’s a sure sign you’re dealing with a moron – and what’s the point of wanting to impress a moron?
Sneaky Adolf Fooled Many
This is definitely something which I’ve been guilty of in the past. And I’ve been actively trying to remove any form of bragging from life altogether. And this includes forced DHVs to impress girls.
I’ve come a long way, and trust me I feel much better about myself for it.
*Not that I’m saying having an actual interest in science makes you great or something.
**That wise man Lao Tzu
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